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Blog of the Grateful Bear

ramblings of a freelance panentheist {"all things are in God, and God is in all things"} . . . musings on Emergent spirituality, powerlifting, LGBTQueer issues, contemplative prayer, mysticism, cats, music, healing, and more. I like my coffee and my existentialism dark-roasted.

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I'm an LPC (Licensed Professional Counselor), in private practice in Marietta, Georgia. I'm an Episcopagan who is involved in the Emergent Christian conversation. My writings on queer spirituality have been published in Whosoever and several other magazines. I live in a house-in-the-woods (Bear's Hermitage) in Marietta with Leonidas (Lenny) and Guy, Mighty Warrior Cats, and way too many books.


Saturday, July 12, 2008

Dad in Hospital - Still Critical, But Improving

My dad remains in critical condition in the CCU at Cherokee Northside Hospital in Canton, GA, but his situation has definitely improved. The swelling and infection in his abdomen (from the actute pancreatitis) have lessened, and the doctors are now saying that his pancreas is inflamed, not damaged. (Earlier they had said that parts of his pancreas had been “destroyed.”)

On Wednesday, the doctors were using phrases like “if he makes it through the night” and “if he survives” – now they are using phrases like “when the swelling goes down” and “when he goes home.” He still needs to have gall bladder surgery, when the swelling goes down. He is still using a bipap mask to help him breathe. His kidney function continues to improve, so he does not need the dialysis machines as the doctors had predicted.

I was grateful that my dear friend Tom Livengood, pastor of The Living Room Church, came by for a visit yesterday with my brother Jason, my sister-in-law Janet, and me, in the CCU waiting room. I deeply appreciate Tom’s love and support, as well as all of the wonderfully kind messages I have received from my friends on Facebook, my blog, the Whosoever and Gentle Spirit email lists (thanks to Candace Chellew-Hodge and Pastor Paul Turner), the Gay Spirit Visions email list, the Sufi Atlanta email list, and many other friends and cyberfriends.

With much love and gratefulness ~
Darrell
Grateful Bear

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4 Comments:

Blogger Celeste said...

I'm glad your dad is improving, and that he did not surrender to their diagnosis. I hope he continues to get better.

1:04 PM, July 12, 2008  
Blogger grannymelissa said...

I'm Praising God right now for this new prognosis. Have not let you or your dad out of my prayers or thoughts, and it would seem I'm not alone in that.

What a blessing to be surrounded in such a tight network of love and support as you both have been, and I'm so glad you have had that.

Still calling down more white light and healing from above on your behalf. God Bless, Darrell and Lloyd.

7:20 PM, July 12, 2008  
Anonymous Heidi said...

I'm so happy that interventions (in all kinds of ways) were able to head off some of the more catastrophic potentialities here.

And you have a gift here, too - in knowing what a bright shimmering interconnected complex wonderful net of love that supports you. What a stunningly beautiful community of friends that respond in love to your spirit. Hold that thought, and cherish it - because you know how rare that can be, and situations like this hold a mirror up for you to see.

It will still be difficult - so remember to care for yourself, too.

Continuing to send love and light to your Dad - and to you - and your family - and to all of your friends, the nodes of love that are doing the same.

Hugs.

12:22 PM, July 13, 2008  
Anonymous arulba said...

Glad your father is improving. My daughter and I used to light candles every night. I'll be sure to do so tomorrow night and include your father in our intentions. (I'm glad you both have such a strong support network!)

6:44 AM, July 14, 2008  

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