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I'm an LPC (Licensed Professional Counselor), in private practice in Marietta, Georgia. I'm an Episcopagan who is involved in the Emergent Christian conversation. My writings on queer spirituality have been published in Whosoever and several other magazines. I live in a house-in-the-woods (Bear's Hermitage) in Marietta with Leonidas (Lenny) and Guy, Mighty Warrior Cats, and way too many books.


Saturday, November 13, 2004

Recovering from Post-Election Depression

A lot of my friends and acquaintances are still depressed over the results of the presidential elections. Although George W. Bush only got 51% of the popular vote, he is calling it a "mandate" -- a sign that America approves of the actions and policies of his first four years as president. To me, his 51% is a sign that America is deeply divided, almost down the middle. We are not divided between "blue states" and "red states," a meaningless distinction because every "blue" state has large numbers of "red" voters, and vice versa. The division is not geographical but ideological. There are two different visions of what America is or could be.

Those of us who call ourselves progressive or liberal are depressed because the majority of Americans rejected our vision.

--Our vision is of an America where "moral values" are not limited to abortion and stem cell research but also include such biblical values as helping the poor (Isaiah 10:1-2), promoting peace (Matthew 5:9), and protecting God's creation (many scriptures);

--an America whose government is supportive of the poor and those in need, rather than seeking to keep the minimum wage low and give tax cuts to the wealthy;

--an America that seeks civil liberties for all its citizens, rather than trying to enshrine discrimination against gay Americans into the constitution;

--an America that cares about our planet and seeks to protect our environment, rather than voting against international treaties and doing away with what environmental protections are already in place;

--an America committed to human rights, rather than condoning the torture of Iraqi prisoners and ignoring the Geneva Conventions by redefining prisoners of war as "enemy combatants";

--an America that seeks to help and empower its abused citizens, rather than cutting funding for victims of domestic violence and diseases such as AIDS;

--an America that only goes to war as a very last resort, rather than rushing into a "pre-emptive strike" based on false information.

This is the vision of America that many Americans rejected on election day. But take heart. As Mark Fiore points out in his wonderful online video The Depressed Democrat's Guide to Recovery, we are not alone. We may not be the majority, but there are 56 million of us. And now it is more important than ever that we continue to make our voices heard. We need to join with others who share our vision of what America is meant to be. We need to write Letters to the Editor of our local newspapers, especially those of us who live in conservative areas. We need to become involved in our local communities, to the extent that we are able. We need to stand firm in our truth, and make sure our truth continues to be heard.

Please use the Comments button below to add your comments and suggestions on how we can continue to stand firm in our truth. Thanks!

Darrell
www.WildFaith.com

5 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi Darrell, it's Irish! Thanks for your article.

I, along with many others I know, are also battling depression brought on by the election. The first thing I did was to declare a news fast. I have not watched or heard any news programs since the election. I just can't bear to hear what is happening. Maybe defeatist, but I just can't stomach it.

The second thing I did was remember some words from a teacher, Donald Engstrom. A few years ago he sent out an essay about "declaring our houses, homes of healing". So that is what I did. My house, at least, can be a home of healing.

And now I am working with some questions he sent out last week. Here they are:

"The specific things that come to focus for me at this time, are the
following questions:
Who are my allies?
Who am I in joyful obligation to?
Am I in right relationship with my lover?
Have I memorized his taste, touch, voice, face and aroma?
Am I in right relationship with my family/clan?
Am I in right relationship to my bio-region?
Am I in right relationship to the multiverse?
Whom helps to feed, clothe, and house me?
Whom do I help?
Where does my food and water come from?
Who profits from my purchases?
What are my governmental representatives contact numbers and addresses?
Who determines what is moral?
Who defines peace with justice?
Am I willing to live an authentic life no matter where and when I am?
Am I willing to stand with a community of authentic individuals?
Am I willing to embrace joy?
Am I willing to be a Fool for Life?

May we all consciously and publicly dare to live authentic lives of
Beauty, Balance and Delight." -Donald Engstrom

I still dare to co-create cultures of Beauty, Balance and Delight! Even if these times necessitate that I remind myself of this each and every day. Especially because of that. Irish Flambeau

11:42 AM, November 14, 2004  
Blogger Sujatin said...

Hugs to all 56 million of you. For weeks I hoped and prayed and watched the poll indicators every day and read the Kerry-Edwards blog and sat in meditation at Grey's Monument in the centre of our city (Newcastle upon Tyne in N.E.England)on polling day, but it was not to be.... It's hard not to be downhearted. However - Kerry would have inherited one heck of a mess - the war, the financial catastrophe. Now Bush will have to deal with it all. I see that he and his buddy, Blair, are making positive noises re the Middle East. if they have to redeem themselves and their images by pulling off peace in that region then that will be all to the good.

We must have faith in the vision of a free and fair world whether that vision seems realisable or not. And hold out hands to all those - a very sizable minority, if minority it be - who share those values.

With love
Sujatin

3:30 PM, November 14, 2004  
Blogger Toby said...

It's important for us all to keep in mind that gay political activism is always just an occasion to reach out to young homosexuals to let them know the community is out here. Though, of course, it would be good for us to win our rights, in the long run the activism is successful whether or not laws get changed. The real focus of gay activism is always to reach the youth.

The debate about gay marriage is successful if it teaches young gay boys and lesbian girls that their future is likely to contain deep lasting relationship and true love. That is what the gay marriage effort demonstrates about our lives.

That message actually reaches them whether the context is pro or con. Even if the story is about how homosexuals must be kept from marrying, if it shows pictures of couples smiling happily to one another, the gay youth get the message.

We win no matter what the outcome of the political battles.
And so we may lose many battles along the way, but we're going to win in the long run just because we're visible to one another.

Toby Johnson

3:39 PM, November 14, 2004  
Blogger yes said...

darling darryll,

thank you for your positive commentary on overcoming depression after the election. iam a gay male and feel very disenfranchised by this recent election how can one concervative party allow marriage rights for heterosexuals and deny the same rights to same sex partners. love is love and fair is fair.our rights cannot be distributed by personal opinion. thanks for being so sensitive and loving. dane299

5:45 PM, November 14, 2004  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Thanks for your well written thoughts on this devastating. Bush's declaration that it is a mandate is as misguided as most his policies.

With each of the last three elections (the two presidential and the mid-term), the only thing I felt I could do that would have any impact on the world was to recommit to my work with the environment and to doing my art.

The past decade seems to have created a complete takeover of our government by corporate interests. I'm reminded of "Farenheit 451" by what is happening these days. In that book, the people wanted the government to have complete control, to take away the books, to tell them what to think.

It seems that people want to have answers fed to them so they don't have to think. People want to be told what to believe, what to buy, how to vote.

The neo-cons have bombarded our population with so much misinformation that most people have no idea of truth. Look at the number that still believe that Saddam was involved with 9/11. These same people believe that it is immoral for men to love each other, but moral to pollute God's magnificent creation.

I'd better stop before this turns into a full blown rant.


Pray for peace.

Pray for knowledge.

Pray for justice.


brotherhug

11:24 AM, November 16, 2004  

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